But the news got back to my mother, and all hell broke loose. I was so naïve-I didn't think anyone would see us up there. But men, be warned: If your mouth isn't all over my lips and neck, you're wasting my time!įun prop: Try a little fresh air! When I was a teenager, I got it on with a guy on a rooftop in our neighborhood. I never get bored of climaxing like this. And it's not like I just lie there-I love to grab his butt and draw him as deeply as I can inside of me so that I can feel every inch of him. What makes it so hot: It may seem like a tame choice for a sex columnist, but I just love looking into a guy's eyes while we're having sex. He slides on top of me and-OK, I admit it! The position that always does it for me is missionary! But practice it dry a few times first so you don't get hurt!įavorite position I'm flat on my back. My partner is in total control here-I don't have to do a thing! It may be a physically demanding position for him, but it makes me feel virtually weightless-and totally orgasmic.įun prop: The Claw is even more fun when you're greased up, so slick yourselves down with Johnson's Baby Oil Gel beforehand. What makes it so hot: I'm a very independent woman, but I occasionally love being dominated. He puts his hands beneath my butt and lifts me up and down while thrusting into me. I face my boyfriend and wrap my legs around his torso.

Just make sure you don't slip around too much when you're moving around (and prepare to get your knees a little bruised if you're trying it in a smaller space)! Maya, 26, executive assistantįavorite position: We're standing. The ambience is really sexy since everything's candlelit and the water and soap naturally get everything going down there.įun prop: Candles, bubbles, and bath oil. It's also a nice change of pace from the routine, so usually we'll try it when we're on vacation (since no one actually wants to clean their bathtub at home). What makes it so hot: I love it because I get to take charge and control the angle, and the warm water helps us relax. We often transition to doggy style or cowgirl after that.įun prop: A little vibrator like the Dame Fin, otherwise it's hard to reach my clit in this spot (it's usually not needed though).įavorite position: I'm straddling him, reverse-cowgirl style, while he's propped up on his back in the bathtub and I'm bracing myself against the sides or the wall. What makes it so hot: Other than it making me come almost instantly, it's always a surprising move that helps us branch out from missionary. It's perfectly musky and great for lathering each other up.įavorite position: We're in a spooning position, and he moves onto his knees behind me and continues thrusting from there. I have many sexy memories of seeing him again after a long separation and immediately hopping in the shower together to wash off the airplane grime and enjoy a sweet reunion.įun prop: I love a good unisex shower gel, like Neutrogena Rainbath. Also, this position always pulled double-duty for me and my boyfriend when we were long distance. What makes it so hot: The running water and upright position make it feel urgent (in a good way), the angle is just right for me, and it's perfect for spontaneous, quick and dirty sex or taking your time (falling into bed for round two afterwards all clean and warm feels great). Julia, 25, writerįavorite position: My favorite is upright, from behind-think steamy shower, bent over one leg up on the edge of the tub. It gives your partner a lot to grab on to, it’s easy to navigate around without taking it off, and the slightly unexpected extra coverage from the sleeves is very sexy. It’s also one of the very few ways I’m able to orgasm from sex, so that’s a huge plus.įun prop: I’m a big fan of lingerie in general but I’ve been very into the concept of a stretchy lace bodysuit with sleeves. Leaning forward brings back the intimacy of missionary while still giving me control. What makes it so hot: The best part about cowgirl is the stimulation, but it also feels very performative to me sometimes. Favorite position: Me on top but bent forward-kind of a combination of missionary and cowgirl

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